When Love Turns Out to be a Liar : Is there really a real "New Moon"?

My son came home from the movie “New Moon” after escorting his girlfriend to the “event” of the opening day of the film. I asked him how he liked it and he said “okay” and poured himself a glass of milk. I did not feel like I should continue the conversation because I know exactly what he was thinking. A movie theatre full of young women mesmerized by the thought of “love eternal” the one that lasts forever, the only one most of them know, the love of their parents and other closely relatives. My son knows this “unconditional love” the one that really never dies because we will always be connected.

I suppose this connectedness keeps the fights to a minimal because we know we will always end up in the same “family” regardless how right our position is on any situation. We don’t need to lie about love.

Love with the general population takes an entire different set of rules. When someone tells you that they “love you” what they really mean most of the time is that “I would really love to have sex with you” which is not that forever love that we envision as the “utopia” of all loves. The mismatched signals of “is this real” when you are trying to figure out the signals, much like a base coach in baseball. How many balls and how many strikes before you walk?

My count has been full so many times I don’t have enough fingers and toes to keep track anymore. It’s not that there is a misunderstanding at all; it is that they are liars. Selfish and self centered and think it is their duty to lie to me and mislead me and I am only stupid for believing them.

Here comes the “catch-22” of the dilemma because I do not trust and become this hardened bitch, or I trust and am some stupid idiot that should know better. Either way I lose or the men keep on lying.

The main theme that I can see between all of these men that I have had problems with all lied to me and when I asked them why they did it they all had the same explanation “I wanted you, what did you expect me to do?”

Can you imagine an advertising or business lying to you because they wanted your business or cheating on safety measures because they just wanted your money? They would land their ass right in court.

What these men do not calculate in their methodology is that the exact lies they are telling you are the exact same one some other guy will be telling their daughters one day. You get to sit at a holiday table sitting across from the guy that lied to marry into your money and sleep with your daughter. Better yet, because you are a liar, they think its normal and will be less likely to even detect it, because after all, all men lie. They learned it from their fathers.

What goes around comes around. Karma? Why does it have to even get this far? The biggest liars and hustlers are lying to women and spreading their DNA through out the world and the men enable them to do by their agreement that its fine to lie.

I do not care who is the liar, man or woman. When you tell a lie you steal a persons choice and perhaps their entire life changes on that one lie.

You are a criminal.