Thursday, December 3, 2009

No One Has Ever Died Of a Dry Penis

No One Has Ever Died Of a Dry Penis

In the recent conversation regarding the cheating of the golf icon Tiger Woods many people have come to his defense because after all, he was just being a man. Apparently, being a man includes this genetic inequality that when within 50 feet of a vagina (under 30 and working at a night club is the most crippling combination) they become completing unable to remember any other commitments, the fact they have children and because of this have this “maleness” literally erects itself to the point where countless lies about how unhappy state of their marriage flows freely. Because they are in this temporarily moment of paralysis, they have no choice as victims to place their penis in all kinds of places of which they have no control. The media would have us believe that they are the victims.
First of all, no one has ever died of a dry penis. It has never happened. There is not one case of someone dying or being put in “harms way” because their penis is alone. Historically, the men that have multiple women are the men that buy them and they buy poor women. The daughters of the wealthy are not placed in concubine situations. It is not that men need sex, as much as we have created a commercialized life that makes them think it is how they compare themselves to each other as males. Historically speaking it was never just good enough to raid a village and take land, wealth and food. It was just the icing on the cake to rape the women in the village as well. The penis that is attached to males historically has degraded and lowered women by their “taking” and “overpowering” women. It is not the “love machine” they claim it to be.
Secondly, now we blame the women he has sex with as the ones that need to check their morality. None of them were married. There has been a claim that he told them that he was not happy with his marriage which implies that he is looking for happiness and turns them into possible applicants. I am not certain that most women regardless of how big their alleged “gold digger” shovel is are going to sleep with a guy that told them the truth which seems more like “I think I just want to have sex with you without any strings, I am happily married and am just curious what it would be like to get my penis wet with you” would jump at that chance. I think a more believable scenario is that there were lies told to everyone.
The first thing about a lie is that once you tell that one lie, you need 10 more lies to keep that alive and another 10 for each of those 10.
The second item is that all the women are not able to consent to anything when the truth is being hidden by a lie. You are unable to consent to any sex if you are intoxicated and not able to consent, but you are also not able to properly consent if the truth is being held back or not delivered at all. Nonconsensual sex by definition is defined as rape. What Tiger Woods participated in is the mere fact that he disregards what other humans need because at its very core cheating screams “what ever I need is more important than what you need”, it is greed at its highest level.

Monday, November 23, 2009

When Love Turns Out to be a Liar : Is there really a real "New Moon"?

My son came home from the movie “New Moon” after escorting his girlfriend to the “event” of the opening day of the film. I asked him how he liked it and he said “okay” and poured himself a glass of milk. I did not feel like I should continue the conversation because I know exactly what he was thinking. A movie theatre full of young women mesmerized by the thought of “love eternal” the one that lasts forever, the only one most of them know, the love of their parents and other closely relatives. My son knows this “unconditional love” the one that really never dies because we will always be connected.

I suppose this connectedness keeps the fights to a minimal because we know we will always end up in the same “family” regardless how right our position is on any situation. We don’t need to lie about love.

Love with the general population takes an entire different set of rules. When someone tells you that they “love you” what they really mean most of the time is that “I would really love to have sex with you” which is not that forever love that we envision as the “utopia” of all loves. The mismatched signals of “is this real” when you are trying to figure out the signals, much like a base coach in baseball. How many balls and how many strikes before you walk?

My count has been full so many times I don’t have enough fingers and toes to keep track anymore. It’s not that there is a misunderstanding at all; it is that they are liars. Selfish and self centered and think it is their duty to lie to me and mislead me and I am only stupid for believing them.

Here comes the “catch-22” of the dilemma because I do not trust and become this hardened bitch, or I trust and am some stupid idiot that should know better. Either way I lose or the men keep on lying.

The main theme that I can see between all of these men that I have had problems with all lied to me and when I asked them why they did it they all had the same explanation “I wanted you, what did you expect me to do?”

Can you imagine an advertising or business lying to you because they wanted your business or cheating on safety measures because they just wanted your money? They would land their ass right in court.

What these men do not calculate in their methodology is that the exact lies they are telling you are the exact same one some other guy will be telling their daughters one day. You get to sit at a holiday table sitting across from the guy that lied to marry into your money and sleep with your daughter. Better yet, because you are a liar, they think its normal and will be less likely to even detect it, because after all, all men lie. They learned it from their fathers.

What goes around comes around. Karma? Why does it have to even get this far? The biggest liars and hustlers are lying to women and spreading their DNA through out the world and the men enable them to do by their agreement that its fine to lie.

I do not care who is the liar, man or woman. When you tell a lie you steal a persons choice and perhaps their entire life changes on that one lie.

You are a criminal.